Let's be honest—many of us enter university thinking it's all about grades and lectures. But the truth is, college is also one of the best chances we'll ever get to build a strong, long-term network.
These aren't just "contacts"—they're the classmates, teammates, professors, and mentors who might help us open doors, give advice, or even become lifelong friends. So how can we do it the smart way?
Tom Friel: How to Network
Video by Stanford Graduate School of Business
Start by being present and curious
One of the easiest ways to build connections is simply to show up—to classes, clubs, seminars, and even casual group activities. When we're consistently around people, they get to know us. Even small conversations like "What did you think of that lecture?" can lead to deeper connections over time. And by showing genuine interest in others' thoughts, we also create room for meaningful relationships.
Get involved in student organizations
Joining clubs, societies, or student-run organizations is a powerful way to meet people with shared interests. Whether it's an entrepreneurship society, music club, debate team, or volunteer group, we get to work closely with others, solve problems together, and build trust naturally. These shared experiences often turn into strong bonds.
Also, don't hesitate to take on responsibilities. Being active—not just a name on the member list—helps people remember us and see our strengths.
Build relationships with professors and advisors
We often overlook our professors when it comes to networking, but they're actually valuable connections. They know people in the industry, in graduate programs, and even in government or research fields. If we participate in class discussions, visit during office hours, or simply ask thoughtful questions, we can start building academic and career connections that go beyond the classroom.
A simple "Can I ask your advice about my future direction?" can open a lasting mentor-student relationship.
Use social media the smart way
Social platforms like LinkedIn and even Instagram can help us maintain and grow our college connections. After meeting someone at a conference, project, or event, follow up with a quick message and a connection request. If we keep our online profiles neat and updated, people will have a better idea of what we do—and might reach out with opportunities.
That said, let's be mindful of what we post. Our online presence is part of our personal brand, especially when it comes to networking.
Attend workshops, talks, and career fairs
Colleges are full of events that bring together students, alumni, and industry experts. We don't have to be super outgoing to benefit—just attending and introducing ourselves to one or two people can make a difference. A short chat like "I'm really interested in your field—do you have any advice for a student like me?" shows confidence and curiosity.
Later, we can follow up by email or message, thanking them and maybe asking another small question. This keeps the connection warm.
Offer help before asking for it
The best networkers are also generous. When we help others—by sharing notes, offering event info, or supporting their projects—we build goodwill. People remember us not just for what we say, but for what we do. Over time, this creates a network built on trust and kindness, not just convenience.
And when we do ask for help—like a recommendation or referral—it feels natural, not forced.
Stay in touch after college
College ends, but our network doesn't have to. We can check in with old classmates, congratulate them on new jobs, or simply say hi. A message every few months keeps the relationship going. Over time, these "weak ties" often become strong ones, especially when opportunities come up.
Staying in touch doesn't need to be awkward—it just takes a little effort.
Let's grow our network together
So Lykkers, building a strong network in college isn't about being fake or overly professional. It's about being curious, kind, and consistent. Start small, stay active, and be genuine with the people around you. Who knows? The person sitting next to you in class today might become your future co-founder, teammate, or lifelong friend.
Have you made any unexpected connections in college that helped you later? Share your story with us—we'd love to hear how your network has grown!